Simple as that.
Not every key opens a door, so best believe, when no doors seem to open, find the nearest window and jump. Take the leap of faith. God will recognize your courage and faith in him and grant you an opportunity that was never available behind a door (or, obvious way to 'success') in the first place.
Competition in life is normal and natural, however, do not result in trying to prove your self worth post-victory or defeat. To brag is not Godly. Respect is still to be given, to those that endure the challenge. Success is to be recognized, even amongst those who fell short.
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I know you see the shirt, though. Shout out to @TrevEnglish